How do these guys act before laying eggs? will they sometimes "rest" on the sand at the bottom, shes still eating, and swimming but "rests" alot. NOT on her side or anything. just with her lower fins tucked in and her tail fin smaller (tucked in) and just hangs out. my water is fine. normal water changes. got her from petco, had stress bars at firrst now is great. been about a month ive had her