my identical twin sister and i disagree about our tanks (i have a 10 gallon and she has a ten gallon). i prefer live plants and earth tones while she likes "hot" colors. (has anyone else seen a tank with black, midnightblue and hot pink gravel?) well, we both have snails in our tanks and while my pink kissers are keeping my tank virtually snail free she is experiencing an outbreak of sorts and wants to "borrow" my gouramis "for a while" would someone please explalin to her that this is too stressfull for my babies to endure. thank you. :